Saturday, June 21, 2025

Anxiety in Teenagers: Signs Parents Shouldn't Ignore

- Medical Communication Intern, Summer 2025 Cohort

Teenage years are a rollercoaster — emotionally, socially, and physically. Today’s teens face an overwhelming mix of academic pressure, social media, and uncertainty about the future. It’s no surprise that anxiety in teenagers is on the rise.

WHO estimates that anxiety disorders affect about one in ten adolescents globally; yet, many go unnoticed or are brushed off as "just teen drama." As a parent or caregiver, knowing what to look for — and when to act — can make a world of difference.

What is teen anxiety, really?

Anxiety is our body’s natural response to stress or danger — the “fight or flight” instinct. But when that response gets triggered too often, too easily, or without a clear reason, it can become a problem.

According to the United States Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), anxiety disorders in teens involve intense, excessive fear that doesn't go away on their own — and they interfere with school and personal relations.



Common types of anxiety in teens include:

I. Generalized Anxiety Disorder – constant worry about many aspects of life

II. Social Anxiety Disorder – fear of being judged or embarrassed in public

III. Panic Disorder – sudden, intense bouts of fear (panic attacks)

IV. Phobias – irrational fears of specific things (e.g., needles, elevators)

V. Separation Anxiety – fear of being apart from loved ones


Warning Signs Parents Shouldn’t Miss:

1. Constant worrying or overthinking

Your teen might seem stuck in their head — worrying about school, relationships, or the future — and it never seems to stop. It might seem out of proportion to what’s going on.

 2. Avoiding school or social situations

A teen with anxiety may start dodging school, refusing to go to events, or even avoiding friends. This is especially true with social anxiety or panic disorder.

 3. Physical Complaints with No Clear Cause

Stomach aches, headaches, chest pain, or even dizziness can all be signs of anxiety. These aren’t made up — anxiety can physically affect the body.

 4. Trouble Sleeping

Struggling to fall asleep, waking up frequently, or feeling tired all the time despite a full night’s sleep can be signs that something’s bothering your teen mentally.

 5. Irritability and Mood Swings

An anxious teen might snap more easily or seem more agitated. While mood changes are part of being a teen, persistent irritability can be a clue to deeper struggles.

 6. Perfectionism or Fear of Failing 

Some teens push themselves relentlessly, fearing any mistake. While ambition is healthy, constant self-criticism or burnout may signal anxiety.

 7. Changes in Eating Habits 

Eating much more or much less than usual, or unexplained weight changes, can also be linked to anxiety or emotional stress. 

Why Parents Should Take These Signs Seriously 

Ignoring these signs or dismissing them as “just a phase” can delay necessary intervention.

Early identification and appropriate treatment can significantly improve outcomes. Left untreated, anxiety disorders can persist into adulthood and increase the risk of substance abuse, self-harm, or suicide. 

When to Seek Professional Help 

Consult a mental health professional when: 

      Symptoms persist for more than a few weeks 

      Anxiety starts to interfere with school or personal life 

      Your teen expresses feelings of hopelessness or talks about self-harm 

What Help Looks Like 

1. Therapy 

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) helps teens recognize and manage anxious thoughts and behaviours. It’s research-backed and widely considered the gold standard in treatment.

2. Medication 

Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or anti-anxiety medications may be prescribed for moderate to severe cases but should always be managed by a licensed psychiatrist. 

3. Lifestyle Changes 

Regular sleep, physical activity, healthy meals, reducing screen time and practicing breathing exercises can help in the long run.

Guide Your Teen

You don’t need to have all the answers. What your teen needs most is to feel safe, heard, and not judged. 

• Ask open-ended questions. 

• Avoid dismissing their feelings with “just relax” or “you’ll be fine.” 

• Keep communication consistent, even if they push back. 

“Parents can be their teen’s first line of defense.” Knowing when to lean in — and when to get help — can change a young person’s life. 

Final Thought 

Teen anxiety isn’t just a phase. It's a real and growing concern. As a parent, your job isn’t to “fix” everything — but to listen, observe, and act when needed. The earlier anxiety is recognized and addressed, the better the chances for a happy, healthy future.


Resources

[WHO – Adolescent Mental Health](https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/adolescent-mental-health

 [CDC – Anxiety and Depression in Children](https://www.cdc.gov/childrensmentalhealth/features/anxiety-depression-children.html

[Mayo Clinic – Teen Anxiety](https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/anxiety/symptoms-causes/syc-20350961)

[Cleveland Clinic – Anxiety in Teens](https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9632-anxiety-disorders

[NHS – Anxiety in Children and Teens](https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/feelings-symptoms-behaviours/behaviours/anxiety-in-children/)

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